Changing $COLOR_HIGHLIGHT of ListView in dark mode

[NMS]

So I've stumbled upon this thread: 

After applying this to a list view, highlight and selection colors remain the same. Modifying these colors works with _WinAPI_SetSysColors() however only when the dark mode is NOT applied. I thought that perhaps since we change the theme itself through uxtheme.dll we need to change those colors however I couldn't figure out which colors or how.
https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/win32/api/uxtheme/nf-uxtheme-getthemecolor

If nothing can be done I'll just redraw the items within the list with custom colors and text above using $WM_DRAWITEM.

Any help is appreciated!